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	<description>For moms who can do it all, but wonder why they should.</description>
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		<title>By: Katrina</title>
		<link>http://www.workingmomsbreak.com/2010/03/29/what-would-you-call-it/comment-page-1/#comment-10238</link>
		<dc:creator>Katrina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Oct 2011 16:45:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks, Pam. I was just talking to a friend this morning who was saying she feels fine when she&#039;s working, and great when she&#039;s just hanging out with her daughter, but absolutely TERRIBLE when she&#039;s trying to do both at once.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, Pam. I was just talking to a friend this morning who was saying she feels fine when she&#8217;s working, and great when she&#8217;s just hanging out with her daughter, but absolutely TERRIBLE when she&#8217;s trying to do both at once.</p>
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		<title>By: Pam</title>
		<link>http://www.workingmomsbreak.com/2010/03/29/what-would-you-call-it/comment-page-1/#comment-10143</link>
		<dc:creator>Pam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Oct 2011 14:10:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow! Love this blog! it really hits home. I am a school teacher with two young boys and I constantly feel emotionally and physically drained. I just can&#039;t do it all. I always feel like a failure. The irony is that my husband has no feelings of failure whatsoever. If the house is not in perfect order--it doesn&#039;t seem to reflect on him. Unfortunately, that guilt falls solely on the women. The strange thing is--I don&#039;t feel stressed at work. I go there and give it my all and feel successful. It&#039;s when I get home that I start to feel overwhelmed with it all--dinner, homework, laundry, bath.  I literally work from the moment I wake up until the moment I climb into bed. And I feel like during the week--I&#039;m so busy that I&#039;m not spending &quot;quality&quot; time with my children--I&#039;m simply slaving away and getting everything done. Is that really how it&#039;s supposed to be? Btw, I was a stay at home mom for 5 years. That job was certainly not easy and I worked my butt off then, too. But I felt like I had much more balance in my life and I enjoyed knowing that my family--my household--was my full-time job. Now I have two full-time jobs.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow! Love this blog! it really hits home. I am a school teacher with two young boys and I constantly feel emotionally and physically drained. I just can&#8217;t do it all. I always feel like a failure. The irony is that my husband has no feelings of failure whatsoever. If the house is not in perfect order&#8211;it doesn&#8217;t seem to reflect on him. Unfortunately, that guilt falls solely on the women. The strange thing is&#8211;I don&#8217;t feel stressed at work. I go there and give it my all and feel successful. It&#8217;s when I get home that I start to feel overwhelmed with it all&#8211;dinner, homework, laundry, bath.  I literally work from the moment I wake up until the moment I climb into bed. And I feel like during the week&#8211;I&#8217;m so busy that I&#8217;m not spending &#8220;quality&#8221; time with my children&#8211;I&#8217;m simply slaving away and getting everything done. Is that really how it&#8217;s supposed to be? Btw, I was a stay at home mom for 5 years. That job was certainly not easy and I worked my butt off then, too. But I felt like I had much more balance in my life and I enjoyed knowing that my family&#8211;my household&#8211;was my full-time job. Now I have two full-time jobs.</p>
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		<title>By: Stephanie</title>
		<link>http://www.workingmomsbreak.com/2010/03/29/what-would-you-call-it/comment-page-1/#comment-8918</link>
		<dc:creator>Stephanie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Sep 2011 17:24:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Congratulations to you for finding that niche!! That&#039;s inspiring to hear. And bring on that future blog post! I&#039;d love to hear what others say, too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Congratulations to you for finding that niche!! That&#8217;s inspiring to hear. And bring on that future blog post! I&#8217;d love to hear what others say, too.</p>
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		<title>By: Katrina</title>
		<link>http://www.workingmomsbreak.com/2010/03/29/what-would-you-call-it/comment-page-1/#comment-8895</link>
		<dc:creator>Katrina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Sep 2011 16:30:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;I wish there were more work opportunities out there for mothers of the flexible, part-time variety and am curious what you&#039;ve found in your own journey with work and motherhood and talking with your readers.&gt;

Agreed. My short answer is that I have been able to carve a niche for myself, working part time from home as a web consultant and I&#039;ve never been happier, but it certainly came with trade offs.

I&#039;ll address this in a future blog post. I&#039;d love to hear what other people say about it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i wish there were more work opportunities out there for mothers of the flexible, part-time variety and am curious what you've found in your own journey with work and motherhood and talking with your readers.></p>
<p>Agreed. My short answer is that I have been able to carve a niche for myself, working part time from home as a web consultant and I&#8217;ve never been happier, but it certainly came with trade offs.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll address this in a future blog post. I&#8217;d love to hear what other people say about it.</i></p>
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		<title>By: Stephanie</title>
		<link>http://www.workingmomsbreak.com/2010/03/29/what-would-you-call-it/comment-page-1/#comment-8672</link>
		<dc:creator>Stephanie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Sep 2011 22:40:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you so much for your candor. While I haven&#039;t had a breakdown like yours, I&#039;ve had similar experiences prior to having children and I find that now that I&#039;m trying to balance having a 2 year old with having a freelance/part-time schedule, I struggle. I struggle, first of all, to feel that I&#039;m a valuable person when I don&#039;t have work. And then when I do, its hard to watch the house become a disaster and to find ourselves eating cheese and crackers for dinner (we just did last night). I feel like my life is a full glass and everytime I add something, it means that something else spills out and drips all over the floor.

I&#039;m so happy to have been introduced to your blog. Thank you for writing about this. I&#039;ve been meaning to post a video blog about moms and work, since I find its yet another contentious topic that comes up among other mothers. Often, I find that mothers who work say things to me like &quot;I dont know how you do it,&quot; (staying home with my son most of the time). And moms that don&#039;t work often say things like &quot;I&#039;m so glad I get to spend this precious time with her/him.&quot; Just seems to me like everyone&#039;s trying to justify their position and there&#039;s very little actual talk that goes on about what we, as mothers, WANT. 

I have rarely encountered a woman with children who wants to work all the time or who doesn&#039;t want to work at all. The vast majority tend to fit into the &quot;longing for part-time, flexible work&quot; category. And while this can be a challenge to find, I think it can be a beautiful way to spend the time we want with our children and also have some satisfaction in the external work-obsessed world. I wish there were more work opportunities out there for mothers of the flexible, part-time variety and am curious what you&#039;ve found in your own journey with work and motherhood and talking with your readers. Does it seem that&#039;s what most women want? And what kinds of work are women finding in the flexible, part-time realm?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you so much for your candor. While I haven&#8217;t had a breakdown like yours, I&#8217;ve had similar experiences prior to having children and I find that now that I&#8217;m trying to balance having a 2 year old with having a freelance/part-time schedule, I struggle. I struggle, first of all, to feel that I&#8217;m a valuable person when I don&#8217;t have work. And then when I do, its hard to watch the house become a disaster and to find ourselves eating cheese and crackers for dinner (we just did last night). I feel like my life is a full glass and everytime I add something, it means that something else spills out and drips all over the floor.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m so happy to have been introduced to your blog. Thank you for writing about this. I&#8217;ve been meaning to post a video blog about moms and work, since I find its yet another contentious topic that comes up among other mothers. Often, I find that mothers who work say things to me like &#8220;I dont know how you do it,&#8221; (staying home with my son most of the time). And moms that don&#8217;t work often say things like &#8220;I&#8217;m so glad I get to spend this precious time with her/him.&#8221; Just seems to me like everyone&#8217;s trying to justify their position and there&#8217;s very little actual talk that goes on about what we, as mothers, WANT. </p>
<p>I have rarely encountered a woman with children who wants to work all the time or who doesn&#8217;t want to work at all. The vast majority tend to fit into the &#8220;longing for part-time, flexible work&#8221; category. And while this can be a challenge to find, I think it can be a beautiful way to spend the time we want with our children and also have some satisfaction in the external work-obsessed world. I wish there were more work opportunities out there for mothers of the flexible, part-time variety and am curious what you&#8217;ve found in your own journey with work and motherhood and talking with your readers. Does it seem that&#8217;s what most women want? And what kinds of work are women finding in the flexible, part-time realm?</p>
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		<title>By: Who clips the nails? (Part IV. How it got this way) &#124; Working Moms Break</title>
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		<dc:creator>Who clips the nails? (Part IV. How it got this way) &#124; Working Moms Break</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jul 2011 18:34:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] are working more outside the home, and for many of us, it’s too much. (See my nervous breakdown [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Is $250K Rich to You?</title>
		<link>http://www.workingmomsbreak.com/2010/03/29/what-would-you-call-it/comment-page-1/#comment-3094</link>
		<dc:creator>Is $250K Rich to You?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Feb 2011 20:42:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] a big wake up call two years ago. After pushing myself way too hard for way too long, I literally had a nervous breakdown and had to stop [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] a big wake up call two years ago. After pushing myself way too hard for way too long, I literally had a nervous breakdown and had to stop [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Don’t Get Guilty, Get Even (Guest Post)</title>
		<link>http://www.workingmomsbreak.com/2010/03/29/what-would-you-call-it/comment-page-1/#comment-3093</link>
		<dc:creator>Don’t Get Guilty, Get Even (Guest Post)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Feb 2011 20:39:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] a big wake up call two years ago. After pushing myself way too hard for way too long, I literally had a nervous breakdown and had to stop [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] a big wake up call two years ago. After pushing myself way too hard for way too long, I literally had a nervous breakdown and had to stop [...]</p>
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		<title>By: The problem that has many names &#124; Working Moms Break</title>
		<link>http://www.workingmomsbreak.com/2010/03/29/what-would-you-call-it/comment-page-1/#comment-3050</link>
		<dc:creator>The problem that has many names &#124; Working Moms Break</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Feb 2011 17:30:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] still think &#8216;nervous breakdown&#8217; is the best term to describe what happened to me when I became (temporarily) unable to work. I don&#8217;t mean to glamorize nervous breakdowns. I [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] still think &#8216;nervous breakdown&#8217; is the best term to describe what happened to me when I became (temporarily) unable to work. I don&#8217;t mean to glamorize nervous breakdowns. I [...]</p>
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		<title>By: The Primary Dilemma &#124; The Choices Working Mothers Make</title>
		<link>http://www.workingmomsbreak.com/2010/03/29/what-would-you-call-it/comment-page-1/#comment-2924</link>
		<dc:creator>The Primary Dilemma &#124; The Choices Working Mothers Make</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Jan 2011 18:35:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] a big wake up call two years ago. After pushing myself way too hard for way too long, I literally had a nervous breakdown and had to stop [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] a big wake up call two years ago. After pushing myself way too hard for way too long, I literally had a nervous breakdown and had to stop [...]</p>
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